What is a maiden? By definition a maiden is a young woman, or to paint a more vivid picture; a virgin. Let us note that all females are born this way, untouched, and unscathed by men. Of course a maiden can also be a non- virgin.
Where are the virgins? Of course virgins still exist; however, we have to get this word for those coming up before they fall. It’s serious!
So let us view what happened to our virgins. Hebrews, this word is for you.
This will explain a critical issue concerning sex and marriage according to covenant; especially, today when we live in an age of ‘sex run rampant,’ or the thinking is to get as much sex as you want movement. It is easy to see now why Yah preserves sex for marriage, because sex is marriage.
He says, “And the two will become ‘one flesh.’ (Genesis 2).Young women should be virgins (unmarried), no sex, untouched by any other man when presented to their husbands. This is a big problem when we find people having sex all over the place, especially the women. Conversely, we note that ignorance is not bliss in this instance. We consider that one must have the need to look past our own lives to notice that Yahwah views marriage differently than culture dictates.
Ladies, when we look at this should see that we are in error. However, it may be too late for some of us, not unto repentance, but to get our virginity back. However, we can learn this valuable lesson and teach our girls. Especially, since finding out that it is the women who are guilty of adultery.
Why are we guilty of adultery if we are not married?
Before, someone shouts ‘but he cheated!” Let it be known today that he does not commit adultery; unless, the woman is married. We commit adultery, if he has not divorced us as Yah commands. It is not man’s thoughts on marriage, but Yah’s (we don’t think like Him). Amen.
Somebody say, “IT’S A MESS!” Yes it is!
In fact, this is exactly the reason Paul taught the women saying, “The older women likewise are to be set-apart in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of what is good, in order for them to train the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, blameless, workers at home, good, subject to their own husbands, in order that the word of Elohim is not evil spoken of.” (Titus 2).
Sex makes us married to him; whomever, him is we gave our virginity too. Make sure he is the one. Teach the young maidens this word. That the first is the last in Yah’s eyes, and whoever comes after that for us makes us adulteresses.
I know there are some surprised people out there. Yes, some of us have been to the divorce court many times. However, the men are not adulterers unless the woman is married; then it becomes a matter for him of covetousness. Hence, the command which says “Do not cover your neighbors wife…” (Exodus 20). Additionally, if the woman is a virgin, then he takes a wife.
There is a problem then, because our women are already married with kids and have been abandoned.
The men don’t know they’re married, and neither, do the women know and we are all adulterers and adulteresses.
Yah says, “Adulterers and adulteresses! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with Elohim? Whoever therefore intends to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of Elohim.” (James 4).
The plan of Elohim for marriage does not include divorce. In fact, he hates it. Hence, why is it that the courts are plagued and filled to overflow with people siting all kinds of excuses to break covenant with their spouses?
Can it be that because we don’t know that sex is marriage, and marriage is beautiful and marriage is good, that we have fallen into the enemies trap once again?
Unbelievable! Remember, there is nothing new under the sun.
“And the serpent was more crafty and cunning than any of the beasts of the field.” (Genesis 3).
He tricked us again into believing that after having sex that very first time we were free to go and do it again. No, like Eve, we are adulterous (See: Was Eve Unfaithful to Her Husband?).
The man takes a wife and must give her a certificate of divorce, unless he causes her to commit adultery. (Matthew 5).
Teach this to the young maidens so they can live right.
Praying for all to be free once and for all.
Here is a word.:
Being promiscuous is of the devil and right, there are many married couples who unfortunately are guilty of the sin of fornication before they were married. This is where wisdom comes. Don’t do it. Telling the kids, don’t do it.
There is more involved in sex that meets the eye. There is danger of mingling your spirit with some unearthly, sensual spirit which one would never get rid of lest Yah intervene. This is where these so called fatal attractions take root. Violent spirits, hindering spirits, not to mention lying deceitful spirits.
Also, we note that marriage is not recognized by Yahuwah until consummation. He is not the inventor of the marriage license.
Look at this:
“Yahshua said to her, ‘Everyone drinking of this water shall thirst again, but whoever drinks of the water I give shall certainly never thirst and the water I give him shall become (((in him))) a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life.
The woman said to him “Master, give me this water so that I do not thirst , nor come here to draw.’
Yahshua said to her,’Go call your husband, and come here.’
The woman said, ‘I have no husband.’
Yahshua said, ‘You have well said, ‘I have no husband,’ for you have had seven husbands. What you have said is true.” (John 4)
Now, The water here is symbolic and denotes how we consistently chase after things, here it is sex and how sex only satisfies temporarily; hence, the woman we have been told had many husbands and the one she is with now is not her husband. Why is this one not her husband. It is the case that she has not had sex with him. Sex marries us to our partners spiritually.
From this, one can gather with this text that the woman had not slept with the man because her spirit was bogged down. In which, Yahshua knew that and invited her to drink the living water that requires her not to dib and dab in world in the world of fornication.
This is why in the word we see that the men “took” a wife. It is the case that when you take something there is sex in involved. In Genesis 34, Shechem took Dinah and his soul cleaved to her, and he spoke tenderly to her.
So I get it, we can’t be letting every Tom, Dick, and Harry ‘take’ our goodies.
The end of that is this, that the woman who learned of the man who knew her secret that is her longing for love but looking in the wrong place. No one can love us uncovered. It is the case here, that we think if we uncover ourselves physically that someone is more attracted to us. Not, so because being uncovered allows us to be ‘raped’ and trampled on; not only physically but emotionally mentally and spiritually.
This message is for all who have ears to hear truth.
Be encouraged Ladies!
- You might not like him not but Daddy Does…Daddy rejoices to see him come for you (daileytalks.wordpress.com)
- Requirements for Covenant Marriage in Arizona (local.answers.com)
- Christian Pastor: Unsaved People Are Not Capable of True Love (patheos.com)