So you believe that since you stopped cheating on him or her that thing is over? Well the affair might be over, but the saga of the infidelity and the unfaithfulness lives on. It is not the case that a person likes to dwell on a thing, however, what one must know is that once trust is broken its difficult to give that again. Hence, an issue of broken trust is far reaching. In fact, people can not trust the person as far as they can see [See: 10 Signs You’re Having An Emotional Affair].
If it is a matter of an emotional affair, then, it might have been better for you had you went through with the actual act.
Scripture says, “If a man even looks at a woman with lust in his heart he has committed [the act of] adultery already”.
Take heed, because in this view people have lost trust and in some instances not able to find that again.
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It is a bunch of crock and bull to use the excuse ‘its a spirit’ concerning homosexuality, or rather, all sin for that matter. Well yeah, duhhh it is a spirit, but if we have authority to case out demons in the Name because these people are carrying a wicked spirit then why aren’t people able to cast those out?
In essence, we yell its a spirit, because we do not know what to do. Its like giving up, helpless, without hope and walking away.
Hence, here comes another excuse because people cannot get help which says they are born that way. Bull corn, fooey and boloney! No! Yah said male and female. So if someone is saying different that means they are lying to them self. A lie has to be thought of, convincing self to belief and then acted out. Then someone none discerning believes the lie too wanting to be well like, wanting to be a good parent, friend, not wanting to offend. People are tricked to unbelief. Because there is always a way out. Yah said it, he provides an escape (1 Corinthians 10:13), but we don’t want escape we want excuse (Romans 1).
Come on now let us reason. Better yet, let us look at the fact that anyonThe Most High said that people are without excuse (Romans 1).e needs help. There is a problem that has over powered the so called church, and its not cause people are not praying, it is because they are praying in the wrong Name.
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What is a maiden? By definition a maiden is a young woman, or to paint a more vivid picture; a virgin. Let us note that all females are born this way, untouched, and unscathed by men. Of course a maiden can also be a non- virgin.
Where are the virgins? Of course virgins still exist; however, we have to get this word for those coming up before they fall. It’s serious!
So let us view what happened to our virgins. Hebrews, this word is for you.
This will explain a critical issue concerning sex and marriage according to covenant; especially, today when we live in an age of ‘sex run rampant,’ or the thinking is to get as much sex as you want movement. It is easy to see now why Yah preserves sex for marriage, because sex is marriage.
He says, “And the two will become ‘one flesh.’ (Genesis 2).Young women should be virgins (unmarried), no sex, untouched by any other man when presented to their husbands. This is a big problem when we find people having sex all over the place, especially the women. Conversely, we note that ignorance is not bliss in this instance. We consider that one must have the need to look past our own lives to notice that Yahwah views marriage differently than culture dictates.
Ladies, when we look at this should see that we are in error. However, it may be too late for some of us, not unto repentance, but to get our virginity back. However, we can learn this valuable lesson and teach our girls. Especially, since finding out that it is the women who are guilty of adultery.
Why are we guilty of adultery if we are not married?
Before, someone shouts ‘but he cheated!” Let it be known today that he does not commit adultery; unless, the woman is married. We commit adultery, if he has not divorced us as Yah commands. It is not man’s thoughts on marriage, but Yah’s (we don’t think like Him). Amen.
Somebody say, “IT’S A MESS!” Yes it is!
In fact, this is exactly the reason Paul taught the women saying, “The older women likewise are to be set-apart in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of what is good, in order for them to train the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, blameless, workers at home, good, subject to their own husbands, in order that the word of Elohim is not evil spoken of.” (Titus 2).
Sex makes us married to him; whomever, him is we gave our virginity too. Make sure he is the one. Teach the young maidens this word. That the first is the last in Yah’s eyes, and whoever comes after that for us makes us adulteresses.
I know there are some surprised people out there. Yes, some of us have been to the divorce court many times. However, the men are not adulterers unless the woman is married; then it becomes a matter for him of covetousness. Hence, the command which says “Do not cover your neighbors wife…” (Exodus 20). Additionally, if the woman is a virgin, then he takes a wife.
There is a problem then, because our women are already married with kids and have been abandoned.
The men don’t know they’re married, and neither, do the women know and we are all adulterers and adulteresses.
Yah says, “Adulterers and adulteresses! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with Elohim? Whoever therefore intends to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of Elohim.” (James 4).
The plan of Elohim for marriage does not include divorce. In fact, he hates it. Hence, why is it that the courts are plagued and filled to overflow with people siting all kinds of excuses to break covenant with their spouses?
Can it be that because we don’t know that sex is marriage, and marriage is beautiful and marriage is good, that we have fallen into the enemies trap once again?
Unbelievable! Remember, there is nothing new under the sun.
“And the serpent was more crafty and cunning than any of the beasts of the field.” (Genesis 3).
He tricked us again into believing that after having sex that very first time we were free to go and do it again. No, like Eve, we are adulterous (See: Was Eve Unfaithful to Her Husband?).
The man takes a wife and must give her a certificate of divorce, unless he causes her to commit adultery. (Matthew 5).
Teach this to the young maidens so they can live right.
Praying for all to be free once and for all.
What determines the mind of men and women who say they know truth compared to those people who do not? When we look at the animal world none of those are as intelligent as humans; although we can think so do animals in a way, not with reasoning but with instinct; so that we see some animals can be trained and most certainly so can we. If I have patience, I can teach my dog to sit or salute, or even go to the door when he has to potty, but I cannot teach my dog to read, write or pray. Why? I cannot not teach him to do those things because his mind is not made that way. This is what makes me different from the animal, and I also see that my dog has not the capability to do any other thing outside of what he can do, so if I tell the dog, sit here and mate only with this dog I chose for you then the dog cannot comprehend that and as soon as he gets a whiff of another female in heat he will leave the dog I chose to go after the other one; no matter where she is, his nature tells him she’s the one. He can’t resist.
How can the saints of Yahweh distinguish themselves from the animals? It is our in dwelling ability to reason. In us is the ability to be monogamous; however, we are no better than the animal when we have not the ability to stop and think before we act. I use the saint vs the dog because, the saints are called to live by the commandments of Yahweh, however, it is impossible to do so without help. In this we see that the saints although some well intentioned cannot follow the commandments without training. Therefore, if the word says do not commit adultery and we say that we love our mates; what makes someone go out and do it? We find out, then, it is the thought, the mind which is weak. There is nothing in us to help us fight…we have the instinct to mate however we also see that we can be just as the dogs if we have not be trained or if we don’t use what we know. The dogs have not the ability to reason like the saint, and do what they are made to do, that is be dogs.
Our dogs have to be trained to be obedient. Once I hung some clothes out on the line and they had a field day, because they had no concept that these clothes were not toys but something to be worn, hence, they pulled and tugged and clothes ended up on the ground torn and dirty. This is just how we are without the word, if we have no instruction to live by we just do like the animals, feet running to evil, being destructive and destroying everything in our pathway.
No one can just come to us and say, don’t do that because we won’t be able to see it as wrong. Nothing can change us, except the word of Yahweh. If we can’t get that the word is there to save us, then, we are just like the beasts of the field. Which are you? Saint or dog? Yah gives new life.
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